Well…. Where do i even start? we were given a lecture on virtual sites and one that sticks in my mind is one called second life. i was no stranger to this, i remember back in college we watched a documentary on it, and i thought the same as i do now, that it is absolutely crazy!! So, what is it? It is a website that people join, it has ideolised landscapes of what people may see as “perfect” a fake place that is always nice and sunny, nothing like actual reality.
They then go onto create avatars of themselves (mythical figures that look nothing like their human self) You would epxect people to try and create a person that is a true representation of themselves would you? But oh no!! as if, everyone look like your typicl “perfect” people, young and pretty. What makes me laugh the most about this, is poeple arent just participating in this fake life, they are paying for it too, they pay to create a good avatar, to wear the best clothes and do the best things, how pathetic?
So yesh, once these people have paid into creating a fake little world, they then even go further. They go andpay for sexual favours and such, on the internet? it is so so shocking. i cant believe that real life people have such rubbish real lives they have to spice it up by paying for sex that isnt even real! And some people, even get addicted to this and waste all of their money on escorts, that again, arent even real.
Then, on the other side of this, companies exploit these people, making them pay lots of money, for items that are only virtual, not even real. People on this website are also being conned out of money too. Theyre putting loads of their own money into second life banks, and then the banks have “gone bust” and theyve lost their money, sometimes this is thousands of pounds theyve put in there, and who do they complain to? no-one. So theyve lost everything, because they were silly enough to trust a virtual bank.
Once more, it isnt even just single people looking for sex on these websites, Universities and Colleges are now joining the bandwagon, though im guessing that theyre doing this so that people can relate to their university on there, and also, i guess its good advertisement for the university or college.
The thing that strikes me as crazy is, the people that sometimes use this website and the effect that it has on them. I mean, some people are married, yet they partake in virtual sex, do you find that correct? because i dont. I mean, really, it is technically cheating, i know for sure if i was married, i wouldnt be best pleased if my husband was virually sleeping around. Are people that unhappy in their relationships that they have to seek happiness from somewhere else? because if so, that for sure isnt good.
Some people have formed real life relationships with people they have met online, and for this, i believe that sometimes it can be a good thing, if people are shy and struggle with confidence, being a totally differet person online may give them the confidence that they need, and thus in the end forming real life relatiomships.
Second life isnt the only virtual website around though, the ultra-geeky World of War Craft is another. This is the same idea as second life, it is just revolved around a fantasy place called warcraft universe, whereby people pay to explore the landscape, figh various monsters and comple quests. Some people even go as far as to have a whole seperate computer for this game, and another for general internet useage
I personal see virtual websites and nothing but money wasters, that give people with nothing better in their lives the chance to be someone they always dreamed of, but was never a reality to become one. It is somewhere people have affairs, ignore loved ones and waste time and money on something, that simply, is not real.